Ben Thoy is currently playing rugby in Christchurch. We caught up with Ben to get his feedback on his programme and his time playing rugby in New Zealand. Ben is 19 and from Leeds. Before undertaking his Sport Lived programme he’d been the First XV Captain of his school and played Yorkshire U18s.
What did you do yesterday? Talk us through a typical day on your Sport Lived programme.
I was in Queenstown over the weekend for a 21st so I woke up on Sunday morning and drove round the city with some friends to see all the different sights ending in a bungy jump at Kawarau before flying back up to Christchurch! It was the best weekend I’ve had since I’ve been here and I would urge anyone to go to Queenstown if you’re here.

Ben Thoy with Jack Butler in Queenstown
What has been different about your experience than you originally expected?
I have made some amazing friends that I will undoubtedly have for life which I expected but just not to this extent. Also, despite coming out here completely focused on rugby, it has made me want to travel as much as possible and see as much of the world as I can!
How have you found New Zealand? If you had to sum up the country in 3 words, what would they be?
Dramatic: there is such a vast amount of beautiful places to see that will change your life and provide memories forever.
Relaxed: the general culture of the country is really chilled out and the people are always easy-going.
Amazing: it is a fantastic country with so much to do and see that you feel as if you are permanently on holiday and don’t want to go home.
How does the approach to sport in New Zealand differ from that in the UK? What have you learnt from a sporting perspective?
Kiwi’s are a proud bunch and really get behind their teams. But again, everything is done with an air of relaxation whilst still maintaining a serious attitude. They don’t take defeat well and always maintain they are the world’s best, which they occasionally are so it’s still fun to tell that they’re going to get whipped by England. From a sporting perspective I have learnt that rugby is not the most important thing in life and that you often play better if you stop worrying as much and sometimes not even think about the game at all. The best thing to do is just relax, have confidence in your ability and put 100% effort in when you are training or competing.

Jack, Richard and Ben watching the Crusaders
How have you developed as a person during your experience/programme?
When you are away from home for such a long time the highs are really high and the lows really low, so the whole experience is very character building and I think I will go home a much stronger person. Also you learn a greater deal of independence and how to live off peanut-butter on toast for days on end.
In brief….
Sporting Highlight:
Speaking to Dan Carter for the first time and also my first try for my club.
Non Sporting Highlight:
Being in Queenstown surrounded by mountains and feeling completely overwhelmed.
Also a number of nights out with the lads!
Worse bit:
Missing family and friends back home.
Why should someone do a Sport Lived programme?
It will prove to be totally different from what you expect but you will find yourself loving every minute of it and taking home memories you will never forget. You will also meet some friends for life who otherwise you would never have known.
Describe your city:
A mixture of English and New Zealand culture and sights with loads to do and see. And an awesome night out!
Your Mentor:
Sweet as.
New word/phrase picked up:
Using ‘Bro’ far too much
‘Sweet as’
Putting ‘ay?’ at the end of every sentence.

Ben with the ladies!
Your lasting Sport Lived memory:
I hope I can remember it all! The main thing would be having a great time with mates and getting to experience life and travelling in an amazing country!